[Trigger warning for sexual assault]

A friend of mine who was sexually assaulted by her then-boyfriend and his friend six years ago recently found out that he posted an account of it as an erotic story on Fetlife (which you may or may not know is a social networking site for kinksters). She created an account to report the post, and I’ve already reported it, but she’s asked me to reach out to find other people to get it hopefully taken down. Choice bits of this victim-blaming piece of crap include calling himself a “white knight” (barf), implying that she asked to be sexually assaulted, implying that she’s crazy and has daddy issues and therefore it’s her fault she was sexually assaulted by his friend while she was drunk, and this wonderful line: “She’s a strong girl, why didn’t she say no?” (hurl).

Aside from being ridiculously offensive and just shy of a confession to sexual assault, the post also violates Fetlife’s terms of use because the post has personally identifying information (he used her real first name) and private conversations published without written consent from both parties.

So I was wondering if you would be willing to publish this post so that any readers with Fetlife accounts (or who are willing to make an account to report the post) can help do something about it. The post url is https://fetlife.com/users/313704/posts/838393#.